Is it better to have loved and loss VS To have never loved at all?

Many people will say that it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Of course, it’s a double-edged sword when it comes to the reality of this question. Yes, Love is good. But betrayal is real, and with that comes some exposure to both the upsides, as well as the downsides of the experience. My main point is to have never loved, which means that waiting doesn’t mean loving. In our lives, we have many chances for love in our lives, from family bonds to the friendships we cherish. Now is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? I say NO. Mostly because to have thought of being in love is very different than reality. Sure you might feel secure in your relationship but one day you find out that she’s been cheating on you and now you have genital herpes…..

From that standpoint, it’s better to have never loved at all VS to have loved and lost.

Stay Safe & Elevated!

Sincerely, Julian